Sean Plunket interviewed author Karen Scott this morning.
RadioNZ has done likewise:
Child, Youth and Family's (CYF) fostering system is failing the children it is meant to be protecting, a foster mother has told Nine to Noon.
Karen Scott said she and her husband took in a five-year-old boy who had been removed from his father's care, and told Nine to Noon why after two years she felt she had no choice but to ask CYF to take him back.
She clearly loved this child but he had psychological problems (culminating?) in killing a family cat. That is not reported in the article on Radio NZ and I have not listened to their interview. But the woman seemed genuine, quite heartbroken in having to relinquish the child, and wracked with guilt about whether her actions had affected her own and husband's children.
When describing her experience with CYF she was not damning of individuals, just the system and processes they had to work with. Resolving small matters could take inordinate time (when the boy needed a haircut CYF were worried about cultural sensitivity). But important stuff, like trying to get professional help for the child, seemed impossible.
Sean said that there were times when reading the book he wasn't sure about his own response and that it is a hard read. But he applauded her bravery in writing the book.
(I note RadioNZ does not name the book which is called
Another Mother's Love)
In 2011 Karen Scott and Mark Finlay and their six children opened
their home and hearts to a sad, skinny five-year-old boy who was placed
with them by New Zealand's Child, Youth and Family services. James
arrived with nothing other than the clothes he was wearing, supposedly
for just a short-term stay. But what followed were two turbulent
years as Karen and Mark attempted to parent a very troubled young boy.
Another Mother's Love is
a heart-wrenching account of a mother's attempt to nurture her foster
child with unconditional love and kindness. However, is love enough?
Karen and Mark faced a harrowing decision – to give up James or risk
their family's future.
Listening I formed a mental picture of CYF putting a troubled child with new foster parents and hoping like hell that the new family and environment would work...multiplied across many, many more families.